“Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.”
Proverbs 13:10 · KJVThe lie
Admitting error will make me small.
The truth
Humility is secure enough to be corrected. A teachable man grows; a defensive man repeats the lesson.
Reason it through
Truth must govern the response.
The need to be right often guards an identity built on competence or control. The gospel frees a man to own error without losing his worth.
Battle plan
Practice before pressure.
- 1Ask one clarifying question before defending yourself.
- 2Name your part without adding a countercharge.
- 3Seek counsel from someone who can challenge you.
- 4Celebrate truth even when another person brings it.
A prayer to begin
“God, make me teachable and free me from the need to protect my pride.”